Heavily Sedated

Not from us. We don't post, share, or announce anything, and we never contact anyone on your behalf without your permission. The one exception is an emergency where someone's life or safety is at risk (see "When would you ever break confidentiality?" below).

Charges appear under our company name, KINGSHIP CONSULTING. They never say "Heavily Sedated" and never mention addiction or recovery. Advance members can request additional discreet billing arrangements. Email us before you check out.

Stand: only you. Fight and Advance: you and your coach. Your coach sees your daily check-ins. He sees your Tool Belt answers only when you choose to share them. Other Fight members never see your check-ins or journal. No one else sees them: no church, no employer.

Only your coach. They're used to make sure the plan fits you and to point you to licensed care if you need it. They're never shared with anyone else. You can ask us to delete them at any time.

Every member agrees in writing to keep what's said in the group confidential. You use first names only, cameras are optional, and you share only what you choose. We can't guarantee what another man does, so share at a level you're comfortable with. If you need complete one-on-one privacy, choose Advance.

No. Your coach will not contact your spouse, pastor, employer, or anyone else without your permission, except in the safety situations described below.

Only in these situations: if we believe you or someone else is in immediate danger; if we learn of abuse or neglect of a child or a vulnerable adult, which Texas law requires anyone to report; or if a court legally compels us. That's the full list.

No, and we won't pretend otherwise. Coaching isn't licensed healthcare, so HIPAA and therapist-client privilege don't apply. We still treat everything you share as confidential and protect it carefully. If you need privileged, clinical care, see a licensed counselor. We're glad to work alongside one.

We don't sell or rent your information, and we never will. This website has no ad trackers or analytics. Note that the Amazon and Gumroad book pages are run by those companies, and they use their own tracking. If that concerns you, buy the book in person or ask us about another option.

Yes. Email us from the address on your account and ask for deletion. We'll remove your account, intake, and app content within 30 days and confirm when it's done. Payment records we're legally required to keep are kept on Stripe, not in the app.

Christian men 18 and older who struggle with porn or compulsive sexual behavior and are ready to stop hiding. It's built on faith-based principles. You don't need to have everything figured out spiritually to start.

No. Some men feel truly out of control. Others watch less than they fear, but the guilt and secrecy are wearing them down. Both deserve help, and the intake helps us figure out which kind fits. Sometimes the most useful thing is working on the shame itself.

No. It's life coaching and accountability. It doesn't replace licensed mental health or addiction treatment. You can use both, and we encourage it.

That's common, and it matters. Coaching can't treat those, but a licensed counselor can. If your intake points that way, we'll tell you plainly and help you find one. Many men do both at the same time.

Call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), available 24/7, or call 911. Veterans can dial 988 and press 1. Don't wait for a coach to reply.

No. A slip isn't the end, and it doesn't erase the work you've done. It's information. Log it honestly in your check-in, tell your accountability partner, and keep going. That's exactly what this is built for.

It helps, because the app follows the book chapter by chapter. If you haven't read it, start with the book. You can also start the app and read along.

Stand if you want a private daily tool on your own. Fight if you've tried alone and want 30 days walking with a coach and a small group of men. Advance if you want ongoing one-on-one help with maximum discretion.

Because a real person does the coaching. Fight cohorts are capped at 10 men so every man gets heard. Advance opens to 4 new men per month so every man gets real attention. When a plan is full, join the waitlist and we'll email you when a spot opens. No pressure and no charge.

A new cohort starts each month. All 10 men start together, so join before the start date.

Fight is a one-time payment and does not auto-renew. You'll never be charged again unless you choose to be. You keep the app for life. If you want to keep going with a coach, you can join another cohort or move to Advance.

Email us anytime. Your plan stays active through the end of the month you've paid for, and you won't be billed again.

Stand and Fight: if it isn't right for you, email us within 7 days of purchase for a full refund. Advance: cancel anytime; partial months aren't refunded. Full details are in our Terms of Service.

She deserves her own support first. Finding out about a husband's porn use often hits like a betrayal, and she shouldn't have to heal inside your recovery program. We built a separate page for her: For wives. If you both want to work on the marriage together later, a licensed counselor is the right person to guide that, especially any disclosure conversation.

Go to app.heavilysedated.com anytime, or use the Member login link at the top of this page. Lost your access details? Check your spam folder, then email us from the address you used at checkout and we'll resend them.

No. The app runs in your web browser on any phone, tablet, or computer, so nothing appears in an app store purchase history. You can add it to your home screen if you want quick access, or leave it off for more discretion.